“And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.” Philippians 4:8 If you want change, you have to start by changing the way you think. All things begin with a thought. Instead of focusing on the problem, focus on the solution. Every time you talk about or think about the problem, you reinforce it’s existence. Acknowledge it and then turn your eyes to God, focus on all the good things in your life, the blessings you have. The solution will come and you’ll be blessed.